Drug Married to @godvelvet. After less than week our female was ready to let the small one be around in the same place and even start to chase each other. Weâve had 2 kids since then, we moved out about 5 months ago. Since bringing him home four days ago, I’ve kept him in his own room, with scheduled feedings, toys, safe areas to retreat to, a window to look out of, etc. You may also want to consider getting a second cat eventually once he is fully healed up – one that has a personality that will complement him, and maybe a female kitten (since they’re typically the most likely to get along with male adult cats) – so that next time you leave or if one of you has a busy work schedule – whatever happens, he can have one permanent companion who will fill his day and be a constant in his life for him. symptom. I feed her every day and I try to treat her with all the love I can. The vet and many cat owners have told me she has “tortitude”, as apparently tortoiseshell cats are infamously feisty and big brats. It would physically pain me to leave her at home when I would go to school. But even if you haven’t had your cat long at all – if you’re a new cat owner concerned your recently adopted cat’s personality just isn’t meshing well with yours, possibly even to the extent where you’re regretting your decision to adopt, hold off worrying for a second. Once you’re done, let me know if you have any other questions concerning the issue. Some combination of keys accidentally pressed by the cat locked up the key board. For re-training him to be cuddly again, I have an article here that may help you. It's possible the cat's been injured pretty good and needs a vet. Then Charlie starts growling and hissing, they attack each other. But he needs his pill. Some things I doubt will ever change – like his aversion to being picked up while being snuggled, but a lot of cats have issue with that in particular. Cat peeing outside the litter box, for instance? I feel so ***** horrible right now. Hope this helps, and do keep me updated on how he’s doing! It was the middle of the night, I walked into the house, took a shower, was climbing into bed. 9 Reasons Why Your Cat Secretly Hates You. What can I do? Her favorite place to sit is on the couch and when I come near her to sit on the couch with her she will stand up and flick her tail and meow. But, every night that I came home, she would purr with excitement and played with me until she was tired. She seemingly acted very remorseful and like she knew it was not an okay thing to do. Okay i did something stupid. Hi, Iâve had my cat Walter for almost 7 years now. Cats dislike change in their routines in the first place, but they also do get attached to people, and in my opinion, a lot of cats grow to become emotionally dependent on human company, even if it’s passive companionship. I’ve tried making them bond through doors, baby gates, and together but nothing is working. Leave a comment down below and I’ll do my best to get a post up! Keep trying! Then, she would always wait for me in bed to sleep through the night together. Heâs always been a sensitive cat, a bit nervous and super scared of thunder storms. After reading comments. Hi! I’m Not Happy About It, But I Hate My Cat: What Can I Do? Cats really hate and are nervous around loud noises in general, and do begin to associate negative emotions with places sometimes if they’re stressed out a lot due to noises and such in those spaces. Hi I have problem with my 5,5 year old female cat. Now I just say no to the behavior or spray with a water bottle. I tried to ignore it. 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